That's What She Said

I am interested in your experience with the knife cataract surgery. My ophthalmologist told me the same thing about laser, but my brother and his wife both had laser and did very well. One of our friends had the knife procedure and did not do well. She had to have it re-done with a laser. I just don't know what to believe.

I read that a patient should go with whichever method their surgeon suggests, because that's usually the one they are best at. :D So if the surgeon recommends laser, he's probably more proficient with the laser. The doctor I saw yesterday was one of the pioneers of laser eye surgery in Houston.
 
Well, now I don't know what to think. I saw my retinal ophthalmologist earlier today and explained to him what the cataract surgeon said about scar tissue and "wrinkles" on the retinal membrane inside my left eye. Retinal guy says, "Impossible. I removed that membrane with the vitrectomy. Cataract guy must be looking at wrong imaging." 👀

So I had yet another dilation, vision check and imaging of the eyes done today and NO SIGN of any wrinkling or scar tissue in either eye. What the actual hell.

Retina Guy gave me 2 recommendations for cataract surgeons that he "would trust with his own eyes." I'm going to take a break from this stuff for a few months, then probably call one of them and see what the 3rd opinion brings.
 
Just a random observation on the stellar USPS. I received an email with a tracking number and this message today...

Latest Update Your item was delivered at the front door or porch at 2:20 pm on December 17, 2025​


It was an Amazon package so I checked my purchase history. Sure enough, I received it 4 months ago. Thanks, USPS!! You have once again reinforced my belief in your Mission, "to provide prompt, reliable, and efficient services to patrons in all areas."
I gotta tack on to this.

-I placed an Amazon order last Wednesday with a Tuesday (tomorrow) ETA.

-I got notification from Amazon on Saturday that it "Shipped," so I went on the USPS website to sign up for Notifications since I now had the Tracking ID. Status was "Awaiting Package From Shipper," so apparently the shipper had just printed a label.

-Last night (Sunday) I got an email saying "Package Received In Baltimore MD."

-This morning my Informed Deliver Digest email showed the package, and said "Awaiting Package From Seller." Uh, I thought you guys were in possession of it in Baltimore.

-Later this morning I got an email stating "ETA Thursday."

-I just got an email saying "Package Delivered In Mailbox." At least I got it.

As I've said before, I really think that the COVID online buying/shipping volume broke their databases. I don't know how they can fix this. This isn't a human entering this stuff, and it's not a physical package doing the Traveling Gnome thing. How do you take a 24 Hour Access database offline long enough to see if indexing will fix it, and how long would indexing something that massive take?
 
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I've been working on the dining room cleanout. I had no idea how much Aerogarden stuff I had accumulated in the last 4 or 5 years, but it's eye-popping. So many spare parts, extra pumps, extension cords, nutrients, etc. Every seed pod kit I bought came with extra pod covers, baskets, etc. and they have really added up over time. I need to sit down with those plastic storage boxes and cull about 75% of that stuff to the trash.

I have 6 Aerogardens plus a couple of knock-off branded units boxed up to take to GoodWill, along with some seed starting kits that are still "new in box." I hope some hobbyist will find them and enjoy them as much as I did. I am keeping 4 gardens in the kitchen and breakfast nook for occasional lettuce, tomatoes, and herbs, plus 4 spare Aerogardens that are boxed up to store in the garage "just in case".

I have done enough of that for today and will get back in there tomorrow.
 
My son just called me for his weekly check in. He's in San Francisco and Oakland this week and loving the cool weather. He said he was at dinner last night and held a door for a woman to pass through. She stopped and smiled and said, "that was nice. It doesn't happen much anymore." He said, "I'm from Texas, ma'am." :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:

That's my boy.
 
Our knife surgery went well! But I think whether you have knife or laser, it depends largely on the skill of the surgeon. I asked several people in my area that I knew who had cataract surgery, who their ophthalmologist was. The one we used had the best praise from people.

After my surgery, my eye felt a little gritty for the rest of the day, like I had something in them, but that soon disappeared. I didn’t really have any pain. I had 3 bottles with different drops I had to put in my eye(s) after surgery. One of the bottles of drops burned a little in the beginning but that too, soon stopped.

My brother had laser surgery. He had one toric lens put in. His didn’t cost any more than my knife surgery. He doesn’t live near me so he had a different doctor. He said his went pretty well with no problems but he thought he should have been able to see better than he did. I think he was expecting to have his 20 year old eyes again. :D
I think all surgeries depend on the skill of the surgeon. I interviewed a lot of past patients of the cataract surgeon we settled on for hubby's cataracts and my hip replacement. Both went very well.
 
I think all surgeries depend on the skill of the surgeon. I interviewed a lot of past patients of the cataract surgeon we settled on for hubby's cataracts and my hip replacement. Both went very well.
I had cervical disc surgery. I was fortunate to have a friend whose wife was a nurse in the regional hospital. Nurses know who the butchers are and who the magicians are. I connected with an orthopedist who got me in an FDA pilot program for a new technique, and a neurosurgeon who later got recruited to become an administrator for another hospital.

I also got a similar contact here. Ask the nurses if you can.
 
I don't have much to write in my diary these days. Life is pretty hum-drum but I suppose that's not a bad thing. I've been doing some reading and piddling around, but I'm looking forward to some cooler fall weather. I have a couple of projects I want to accomplish in the backyard; one of which involves moving a lot of heavy river rock to an area around the garden shed. So that will definitely wait for cooler temps.

My PCP sent a referral to a kidney specialist and I waffled back and forth on whether to bother with that. I'm making some lifestyle changes (mostly dietary) to see if that will be enough to improve things or at least keep them from getting worse. So today I canceled the referral because I just don't want to go.

We have some new neighbors on the street; they have moved into the corner house where the annoying young man and his hot rod used to live. I'm so glad to not hear his dumb ass screeching up and down the street anymore. I heard that he is in jail and hopefully he will be there for a while. Good riddance. (Yep, I'm officially that bitchy old woman.)

I'm still trying to figure out whether to move forward with cataract surgery. My poor vision is annoying but somehow I'm not comfortable with scheduling surgery yet. I have a checkup with my retinal ophthalmologist in October so maybe I'll wait till after that visit.
 
My PCP sent a referral to a kidney specialist and I waffled back and forth on whether to bother with that. I'm making some lifestyle changes (mostly dietary) to see if that will be enough to improve things or at least keep them from getting worse. So today I canceled the referral because I just don't want to go.
Do you like cinnamon, Beth? Supposedly Ceylon Cinnamon is supposed to be good for kidney health. It might be just a “witchy” thing, I don’t know.:D I use a about a ¼ teaspoon everyday on my oatmeal, or sprinkle it on or in something. Some people like it in their coffee, or other drinks. My husband has low kidney function, according to his blood work. He is not worried about it, he said. I convinced him to try the cinnamon; and NOT in cinnamon rolls! :D He just started using Ceylon cinnamon about a month ago so we will see if his eGFR improves on his next blood work.
 
I don't have much to write in my diary these days. Life is pretty hum-drum but I suppose that's not a bad thing. I've been doing some reading and piddling around, but I'm looking forward to some cooler fall weather. I have a couple of projects I want to accomplish in the backyard; one of which involves moving a lot of heavy river rock to an area around the garden shed. So that will definitely wait for cooler temps.

My PCP sent a referral to a kidney specialist and I waffled back and forth on whether to bother with that. I'm making some lifestyle changes (mostly dietary) to see if that will be enough to improve things or at least keep them from getting worse. So today I canceled the referral because I just don't want to go.

We have some new neighbors on the street; they have moved into the corner house where the annoying young man and his hot rod used to live. I'm so glad to not hear his dumb ass screeching up and down the street anymore. I heard that he is in jail and hopefully he will be there for a while. Good riddance. (Yep, I'm officially that bitchy old woman.)

I'm still trying to figure out whether to move forward with cataract surgery. My poor vision is annoying but somehow I'm not comfortable with scheduling surgery yet. I have a checkup with my retinal ophthalmologist in October so maybe I'll wait till after that visit.
Sounds like a movie title "The House On The Corner With The Screeching Ass". Haha 😄

Actually if you didn't want to hear his "dumbass screeching" you should have recommended that he take Imodium. Haha

I think I'm on a "roll" here or maybe a bagel.
 
Do you like cinnamon, Beth? Supposedly Ceylon Cinnamon is supposed to be good for kidney health. It might be just a “witchy” thing, I don’t know.:D I use a about a ¼ teaspoon everyday on my oatmeal, or sprinkle it on or in something. Some people like it in their coffee, or other drinks. My husband has low kidney function, according to his blood work. He is not worried about it, he said. I convinced him to try the cinnamon; and NOT in cinnamon rolls! :D He just started using Ceylon cinnamon about a month ago so we will see if his eGFR improves on his next blood work.

I mostly like cinnamon in coffee cake, cinnamon rolls, and cinnamon toast, Krys!! 🍰🍞 Since I seldom eat breakfast I guess I need to start having a small bowl of oatmeal with some ceylon cinnamon. It certainly couldn't hurt!! Thanks for the suggestion. I got a jar of ceylon cinnamon in my Amazon order this morning.
 
I mostly like cinnamon in coffee cake, cinnamon rolls, and cinnamon toast, Krys!! 🍰🍞 Since I seldom eat breakfast I guess I need to start having a small bowl of oatmeal with some ceylon cinnamon. It certainly couldn't hurt!! Thanks for the suggestion. I got a jar of ceylon cinnamon in my Amazon order this morning.
It is actually not bad in coffee or even in tea. I sometimes remember to add cinnamon and/or cloves to my morning coffee, since they both are supposed to have health benefits. Bobby adds it to his morning energy drink (the beetroot concoction he makes) and it probably helps that to taste better as well.
I always liked that Constant Comment tea, and it has cinnamon in it.
 
I don't have much to write in my diary these days. Life is pretty hum-drum but I suppose that's not a bad thing. I've been doing some reading and piddling around, but I'm looking forward to some cooler fall weather. I have a couple of projects I want to accomplish in the backyard; one of which involves moving a lot of heavy river rock to an area around the garden shed. So that will definitely wait for cooler temps.

My PCP sent a referral to a kidney specialist and I waffled back and forth on whether to bother with that. I'm making some lifestyle changes (mostly dietary) to see if that will be enough to improve things or at least keep them from getting worse. So today I canceled the referral because I just don't want to go.

We have some new neighbors on the street; they have moved into the corner house where the annoying young man and his hot rod used to live. I'm so glad to not hear his dumb ass screeching up and down the street anymore. I heard that he is in jail and hopefully he will be there for a while. Good riddance. (Yep, I'm officially that bitchy old woman.)

I'm still trying to figure out whether to move forward with cataract surgery. My poor vision is annoying but somehow I'm not comfortable with scheduling surgery yet. I have a checkup with my retinal ophthalmologist in October so maybe I'll wait till after that visit.
Can you truly be that bitchy old woman without a houseful of cats?
 
It is actually not bad in coffee or even in tea. I sometimes remember to add cinnamon and/or cloves to my morning coffee, since they both are supposed to have health benefits. Bobby adds it to his morning energy drink (the beetroot concoction he makes) and it probably helps that to taste better as well.
I always liked that Constant Comment tea, and it has cinnamon in it.

I always forget about hot tea; that's a good idea, Yvonne. I think I have some green tea in the pantry.
 
I'm feeling a little blue today. I was outside earlier, raking mulch and digging out a bush that has died in the front landscaping. Why is it that when I finally have those stupid beds looking good, one stupid hedge decides to DIE??? 🤬 🪴

Our neighbor next door was edging his sidewalk and walked over to speak. We did a little neighbor-gossip about the new folks, then I asked him if he knew how our neighbor Kim across the street is doing.

Kim retired about 2 years ago and was diagnosed with Parkinson's. She's a sweet but quiet woman, and mostly keeps to herself though she's friendly enough. Neighbor told me that Kim is going downhill fast; she is having trouble walking and her sister comes over a few times a week to help Kim's husband bathe Kim and wash her hair. Kim's husband was in an industrial accident a few years ago and has issues with his back and legs so this is a struggle for both of them.

Neighbor went on to say that tomorrow he is taking his own wife Kathy to have a brain scan. They are concerned that she may have the beginning of dementia. He said she gets up in the middle of the night and puts things in strange places, and other odd behavior. Apparently they spend a lot of time searching for random things that she has misplaced, and there are other signs of forgetfulness that are unlike Kathy.

Neighbor was recently hospitalized himself for kidney issues and was temporarily on dialysis. He has lost weight and looks unwell but he said he is feeling much better.

This all makes me feel so sad. All of us moved into this cul-de-sac in 1994 when our houses were new and we had young families. I remember the excitement of holidays and how we all went overboard decorating for Christmas, Halloween, etc. All the good-natured ribbing, joking, and gossip over the years. Sharing garden bounty, barbecuing tons of meat when hurricanes knocked the power out for days, watching out for property when neighbors were on vacation, yelling at each other's kids when they were up to mischief... all the things that make a neighborhood 'neighborly.'

Seems like when I think about how old I'm getting, I forget that all my neighbors are aging along with me. 😔 I'm not good with change, but I see a lot of change happening in the not-too-distant future.
 
I'm feeling a little blue today. I was outside earlier, raking mulch and digging out a bush that has died in the front landscaping. Why is it that when I finally have those stupid beds looking good, one stupid hedge decides to DIE??? 🤬 🪴

Our neighbor next door was edging his sidewalk and walked over to speak. We did a little neighbor-gossip about the new folks, then I asked him if he knew how our neighbor Kim across the street is doing.

Kim retired about 2 years ago and was diagnosed with Parkinson's. She's a sweet but quiet woman, and mostly keeps to herself though she's friendly enough. Neighbor told me that Kim is going downhill fast; she is having trouble walking and her sister comes over a few times a week to help Kim's husband bathe Kim and wash her hair. Kim's husband was in an industrial accident a few years ago and has issues with his back and legs so this is a struggle for both of them.

Neighbor went on to say that tomorrow he is taking his own wife Kathy to have a brain scan. They are concerned that she may have the beginning of dementia. He said she gets up in the middle of the night and puts things in strange places, and other odd behavior. Apparently they spend a lot of time searching for random things that she has misplaced, and there are other signs of forgetfulness that are unlike Kathy.

Neighbor was recently hospitalized himself for kidney issues and was temporarily on dialysis. He has lost weight and looks unwell but he said he is feeling much better.

This all makes me feel so sad. All of us moved into this cul-de-sac in 1994 when our houses were new and we had young families. I remember the excitement of holidays and how we all went overboard decorating for Christmas, Halloween, etc. All the good-natured ribbing, joking, and gossip over the years. Sharing garden bounty, barbecuing tons of meat when hurricanes knocked the power out for days, watching out for property when neighbors were on vacation, yelling at each other's kids when they were up to mischief... all the things that make a neighborhood 'neighborly.'

Seems like when I think about how old I'm getting, I forget that all my neighbors are aging along with me. 😔 I'm not good with change, but I see a lot of change happening in the not-too-distant future.
I've been feeling that way too. We've lived in this house for more than 20 years. A few of this subdivision have been here forever. Some houses have been sold and re-occupied. But I drive the same road from here to the farm several times a day and have gotten to know the people of that road, mostly from those walking dogs. I notice people as they got older and then were not there any more. Dogs changed as they got old and then new pups arrived. I've watched the people go grey and stooped. Some got better with a hip or knee replacement but then they were gone...
 
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