I think most of us would feel like that.
My sister was raped at knifepoint in her way home from work .
They caught him and locked him up for 7 years , but we had to wait 9 months until the trial.
I spent those 9 months planning where I could get a gun from to shoot him in court.
I didn't get a gun and when I saw him in the courtroom all my anger left me and all I felt was pity because he was a pathetic figure of a man.
Another instance was my first husband's niece was murdered by her partner.
She was 27 with a 3 year old daughter.
The shock is great .
However I still wouldn't have felt right about either of these men being put to death.
We all have our own thoughts and feelings about such matters. And it's not a case of one is right and one is wrong.
Your sister's situation reminded me of two similar crimes where the victim's parents got justice for their kids:
On April 2, 1993,
Daniel Mark Driver was fatally shot in a courtroom in
Sacramento, California, United States, by
Elena Starr Nesler, after Driver had been accused of molesting her son.
[1] The case was reported on throughout the United States,
[2] and the
Associated Press wrote that the incident "sparked a national debate about
vigilantism".
[1]
Killing of Daniel Mark Driver
Nesler made headlines on April 2, 1993, when she killed Daniel Mark Driver
[2] - who had been accused of sexually abusing five boys, including Nesler's then-six-year-old son, William - in the courtroom of the
Jamestown Justice Court. She fired five shots into Driver's head, killing him instantly. Driver had previous convictions for child molestation.
[3]
According to Jon Thurber of the
Los Angeles Times, the finding that Nesler was under the influence of
methamphetamine when she killed Driver caused the "sympathetic portrait" of herself portrayed by her defense team to "erode".
[2] She served 3 1/2 years in jail as her case wound its way through trial and appeal before she pleaded guilty to voluntary manslaughter. Judge William Polley sentenced her to 10 years in prison, describing the murder of Driver as "nothing more than an execution."
[4] Nesler was released from prison in 1997.
In the case below, the father received no prison time; only probation: