Marie Mallory Memorial thread

You folks remind me of the "Haven", Hospice people; so kind, and Marie just Loved everyone of you.She asked me and our son to hook up her laptop there at Haven, so we did, but she was never able to even look at it. Marie was a very strong woman and never stopped surprising me with her strength and resilience, her last words to me were; woke me at 4 am when I was able to sleep. said my mouth is so dry, get me up; I said baby I don't think you can get up, she said help me; so I put my arm out and she pulled herself up on her right elbow, was a little wobbly and I gave her a couple sips of water, then I asked her you want your mint gum, she said yes so I broke one in half, she chewed on it then I threw it away, and I told her I'm so sorry, you going through this; I was crying like a baby, thinking I don't want her seeing how sad I am, but can't help it. she said It's "No Ones Fault". Tears in my eyes now. I'm trying not to cry I've cried so much I got dehydrated. I cannot believe anyone can have so much water come out of their eyes. I was trying to tell Yvonne last night, i'm not doing so good with this; and I don't want to offend anyone.

Soon as I'm able to make it or get a grip; I will come back.


I put a bench at her grave site today; sat and talked for hours with her.

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View from her bench.

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Believe me, I want to talk; but I'm not able right now. Just struggle if I get to sleep I wake thinking she's there beside me, only to realize she not, and anxiety attacks, hit me hard.

She spent her days with y'all, and loved everyone of you. She used to tell me, you need to stay logged in; they don't think your "tongue" is hanging out. It helps the site. I would say I don't usually stay logged in anywhere; she would say you should.

Ten days today since she left us; and it's going to take a lot of time for me to get a grip.


Christmas eve 1982, we were married.

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You took very good care of Marie, @Jake Smith. The bench is lovely. Sitting there on the bench talking to, Marie, can help you get through the mourning process. It is very hard to lose a partner of so many years. Take one day at a time. After a while, each day will be a little bit easier to get through, and finally you will settle into a new normal.

You and Marie are a couple of cutie pies in your wedding picture.:)
 
Jake Smith said:
You folks remind me of the "Haven", Hospice people; so kind, and Marie just Loved everyone of you.She asked me and our son to hook up her laptop there at Haven, so we did, but she was never able to even look at it. Marie was a very strong woman and never stopped surprising me with her strength and resilience, her last words to me were; woke me at 4 am when I was able to sleep. said my mouth is so dry, get me up; I said baby I don't think you can get up, she said help me; so I put my arm out and she pulled herself up on her right elbow, was a little wobbly and I gave her a couple sips of water, then I asked her you want your mint gum, she said yes so I broke one in half, she chewed on it then I threw it away, and I told her I'm so sorry, you going through this; I was crying like a baby, thinking I don't want her seeing how sad I am, but can't help it. she said It's "No Ones Fault". Tears in my eyes now. I'm trying not to cry I've cried so much I got dehydrated. I cannot believe anyone can have so much water come out of their eyes. I was trying to tell Yvonne last night, i'm not doing so good with this; and I don't want to offend anyone.

Soon as I'm able to make it or get a grip; I will come back.


I put a bench at her grave site today; sat and talked for hours with her.

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View from her bench.

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Believe me, I want to talk; but I'm not able right now. Just struggle if I get to sleep I wake thinking she's there beside me, only to realize she not, and anxiety attacks, hit me hard.

She spent her days with y'all, and loved everyone of you. She used to tell me, you need to stay logged in; they don't think your "tongue" is hanging out. It helps the site. I would say I don't usually stay logged in anywhere; she would say you should.

Ten days today since she left us; and it's going to take a lot of time for me to get a grip.


Christmas eve 1982, we were married.

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Thanks Jake. Don't worry about posting until you are ready. Beautiful wedding photos. Y'all look pretty snazzy and dapper.
 
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