Had a call today at 3 pm; about our granddaughter, had o/d off fentanyl

Jake Smith said:
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Also notice how the grave is sinking in, my daughter saaid she will call me when they leave the site.
i keep seeing Dejah when we took them on a snorkel trip to the keys, her snorkel was up around her nose from rough seas, we got back on the boat and she went to the head to pee, toilet tissue was stuck inside her bathing suit on her butt, unrolling all the way as she walked, Other granddaughter Cindy was throwing up overboard from seasickness. It was an interesting trip.
 
Kate Ellery said:
Meant to add Taylah said she no longer touches drugs , but she seemed like some of the clients I worked with in my working days that were unmotivated due to being in some sort of antidepressant medication 💊 that sadly had that side effect on some clients
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Thank goodness she is off the drugs,
 
Kate Ellery said:
May your dear Granddaughter rest in peace @Marie Mallory @Jake Smith is that private land she’s buried on …it’s so peaceful looking
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Theresa said it's a new cemetery, and it does look peaceful, to me that the sun with, a cross and an orb, is,"astonishing". She was just a few minutes ago, taking those photos and was doing with her phone talking to Marie, and said Mom there's an orb on Dejah's grave, then sent us a copy. :unsure:
 
@Marie Mallory @Jake Smith -- I'll just add one more thought about Jake's relatives, if I may. Sometimes family members never quite accept stepchildren as "real family," if you know what I mean.

My MIL was like that to a degree. She was never unkind to my sons, but they definitely "ranked" below her natural grandkids, which was OK since my sons never seemed to notice. I noticed. Some people just can't embrace stepchildren or adopted children, though I don't believe they mean to be hateful.
 
Beth Gallagher said:
@Marie Mallory @Jake Smith -- I'll just add one more thought about Jake's relatives, if I may. Sometimes family members never quite accept stepchildren as "real family," if you know what I mean.

My MIL was like that to a degree. She was never unkind to my sons, but they definitely "ranked" below her natural grandkids, which was OK since my sons never seemed to notice. I noticed. Some people just can't embrace stepchildren or adopted children, though I don't believe they mean to be hateful.
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I've seen it in families too, including mine, but the way I see it; is when your friends with your family on FB, and their step grandchild dies and you cannot take the time to click a care or some sort of reply, then why would I want to be your friend. Not only that this is the second grandchild's death, with nothing replied; but I can tell you there won't be a third time.

I had put her death up just like I did on here, and their family; yet y'all are the only ones with compassion. They all have step children which I've never treated like that. I went to the funerals, or at least sent nice flowers and even clicked sad or care or something to let them know I care. I wanted to tell them, and was going to, but Marie asked me not to, so I just closed the account.
 
Beth Gallagher said:
@Marie Mallory @Jake Smith -- I'll just add one more thought about Jake's relatives, if I may. Sometimes family members never quite accept stepchildren as "real family," if you know what I mean.

My MIL was like that to a degree. She was never unkind to my sons, but they definitely "ranked" below her natural grandkids, which was OK since my sons never seemed to notice. I noticed. Some people just can't embrace stepchildren or adopted children, though I don't believe they mean to be hateful.
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I could fill a book about that but it needs a new / different thread @Beth Gallagher
 
Jake Smith said:
I've seen it in families too, including mine, but the way I see it; is when your friends with your family on FB, and their step grandchild dies and you cannot take the time to click a care or some sort of reply, then why would I want to be your friend. Not only that this is the second grandchild's death, with nothing replied; but I can tell you there won't be a third time.

I had put her death up just like I did on here, and their family; yet y'all are the only ones with compassion. They all have step children which I've never treated like that. I went to the funerals, or at least sent nice flowers and even clicked sad or care or something to let them know I care. I wanted to tell them, and was going to, but Marie asked me not to, so I just closed the account.
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I am reminded of the Maya Angelou quote, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." I'm sorry you were hurt by their lack of compassion, Jake. The world seems to get colder every day.
 
Kate Ellery said:
I’m sure Dejah would have felt the heartfelt wishes handed out to her from “ our online family” right here @Marie Mallory @Jake Smith

I’m love to know the meaning of that orb/ cross right on her grave
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I agree and I'd also love to know whats behind these orbs and other strange things.
10 or so years ago we were in bed about to go to sleep, and I was looking at the French windows and an orb just came thru very slow and went to my dresser landed and kind of danced around some I ask Jake, 'do you see that' he just said I see something, so not sure about him but I watched it slowly exit the same door window it came in, I had told my daughter about this when it happened.
Today that orb reminded her of one I saw. Only time either of us has ever seen an orb,
It has been a trying day.
 
Kate Ellery said:
I’m sure Dejah would have felt the heartfelt wishes handed out to her from “ our online family” right here @Marie Mallory @Jake Smith

I’m love to know the meaning of that orb/ cross right on her grave
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Me too, but guess "we" will have to figure out what we think it means. Theresa told us she's been praying for a sign, that Dejah's ok, and I think that's why she saw this. Strange things are happening.
 
Beth Gallagher said:
I am reminded of the Maya Angelou quote, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." I'm sorry you were hurt by their lack of compassion, Jake. The world seems to get colder every day.
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It is Beth, and it's a sad thing too. it really "teed", me off and I acted the only way I could. It doesn't make you feel any better; but you hope it sends a message to the ones against you, there's a lot of cold hearted people in this world.
 
Marie Mallory said:
Dejah's youngest 'her son'
which is 7 ask his Nana,'My daddy died when I was 5, now my mama dies when I'm 7, why do I have to lose both my parents at such a young age'? He is a very smart little boy, but this surprised my daughter.
Today is the funeral and we can't go although my daughter is keeping in touch. I'm still barely walking with a walker, my legs both went out on me so be glad when I heal, pain gets me up around 5am DST which I never liked, since it just means 3 hours of darkness till sunrise.
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I spend my dark hours here on SOC with friends. We can do it together.
 
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