Marie Mallory
Well-known member
That is when optimism keeps you going.
I disagree strongly with the idea that health and longevity are things that we have no control over. While it is true that doing all of the right things, if we could even figure out what they were, will not guarantee us a long, healthy life, it will do far more towards that end than doing all the wrong things. There will always be outliers, just as I am sure there were people whose cancer went away after they ate apricot pits, or whatever they hell it was they did with apricot pits. You'll always be able to point to someone who lived on fast food, cigars, and beer, yet lived to be a hundred, and you will always find young children, who haven't even had the chance to do any of the wrong things, with cancer. But to suggest that it doesn't matter what you eat, drink, or do, that's not something I can accept. Yes, to a very large extent, we inherit good or bad health traits, but these are not the only determining factors.
I also think we can have an affect on our lives, and if I hadn't smoked for 64 years I may not have lung cancer. Then maybe I would have used another addiction to get me thru, like food or alcohol.