Many people complain about the state of Medicine in the USA, but I'm not one of them. I am lucky to live in a large metro area where plenty of doctors and world-class facilities are available.
Marie, I have been appalled at the poor treatment that you have received during your entire ordeal. Back in 2021 when I saw my PCP and she said, "have that checked ASAP", I did as I was told and made an appointment at MD Anderson that week.
When I had my INITIAL appointment with MDA, I had a mammogram, ultrasound, and a guided needle biopsy all in a single day. It was a long day, but I knew THAT VERY DAY that I had a cancer diagnosis, that it had spread to a lymph node under my arm, and that treatment was imperative due to the aggressive nature of the type of disease.
After that it was a whirlwind of appointments, MRIs, scans, bloodwork, heart tests, etc. MDA scheduled all appointments and all I had to do was show up.
Even yesterday, five years after my treatment ended, I had a mammogram, ultrasound, and an oncologist visit scheduled one after another. By the time I got to the oncologist appointment he already had the results of my mammogram and ultrasound. An excellent medical facility just runs like a well-oiled machine and it's almost inconceivable to me that you have had to fight for every prescription while using the ER as your main source of care.
I wish things were easier for you during this stressful time, and it makes me so sad that you and Jake are basically on your own in this. I received such exemplary care that I am left speechless when I read the ordeal that you and Jake have been through.