Marie Mallory
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Thank you again Beth.I', rethinking some of the things about this for last couple days.
I welcome all the comments from you and others here.
"Marie", has a new primary care "Doctor" now
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I welcome all the comments from you and others here.
Marie Mallory
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First off from what I've researched even with treatment , I have months, not years since we know it has spread. Pärt of tailbone is gone, and cat scan ,MRI both confirm T12 and S 1 tumors.
What I have is Mastastis Choredoma.
I'm 76 and after smoking for 64 of those years I feel I lived a long life.
My friend and I bought out first pack of cig's at 12 yr old.We worked in restaurant washing dishes.
What I have is Mastastis Choredoma.
I'm 76 and after smoking for 64 of those years I feel I lived a long life.
My friend and I bought out first pack of cig's at 12 yr old.We worked in restaurant washing dishes.
Marie Miller
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Who gave you the diagnosis Marie?
Tony Page
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Marie,
I am not a doctor, but don't let your mind wander. Wait for your oncologist plan for treatment, if you've research from the internet it's not always accurate.
I know it really doesn't matter, but I'm pretty sure Mastastis Choredoma is not the results of smoking.
Make a list of questions/concerns for your oncologist, and make sure his answers satisfy you. Use that Marie wisdom that I've experienced over the years for positive thoughts.
Thoughts and Prayers
Tony
Faye Fox
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If you have Metastatic Chordoma then where did the cancer come from? If the tumors originated in the spine, then the cancer isn't metastatic and chances that cancer from C-1 spread to the tailbone are 1 in 10 million. Chances that the tumors originated in the spine are 1 in 1 million. There are other types of spine cancer other than Chordoma.
The most likely case is that the cancer spread to the tailbone and spine from either the colon or breast. Recently a friend died from colon cancer that spread to his tailbone and spine and other organs. Had he not been stubborn about getting a colonoscopy, he would be alive today. He was 80 and never had a colonoscopy. Another spread to the tailbone in men is prostate.
In women usually colon or in rarer cases, vaginal. Since I know my colon is free from cancer, this is why I keep a close eye on vaginal cancer that the doc believes to be very low grade and slow growing. Chances are I will be 85 before I need treatment, but since there are no hard and fast rules, I keep my 6 month appointments and go in anytime I have tailbone problems.
"I keep a close watch on this ass of mine, I keep my eyes open all the time......."
Have you had a recent colonoscopy? A recent mammogram? My point is without a biopsy and a PET Scan, then while assuming it is cancer, is reasonable, the kind and stage of cancer is pure speculation. I would encourage you to cooperate with at least a PET scan, so the Oncologist can start mapping what they have to deal with. It is your right and decision to refuse any further testing and treatment, but please give it some thought. I don't understand hospice visiting before you even have a firm diagnosis, but whether any of us understand, doesn't matter. What matters is that you do what you want.
I can think of nothing worse than undergoing a surgery and horrible treatment, just to gain a few more months or even a couple of years to live, years spent in pain and mental agony. Finally, again my point is get all the testing done before making up your mind. Cancer is like an enemy ... it is best to know all about that enemy before surrendering or going into battle.
Jake Smith
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Thanks Tony, you are a caring and compassionate man, good friend to have, Marie and I have been through it with this roller coaster ride, now going into seven months, wears you completely out. I think on biopsies, from researching, they're scared at the age she is, and the location of cancer, they say it's very risky to do involving the spinal chord and other things like arteries, nerves and spread of cancer. Still waiting to hear back from the bone Dr., who said he will "call", soon as he has a team together to help her. I'm not trying to ignore you good and helpful folks, just that cat has had my tongue for months now, dealing with all this and can only imagine what mentally and physically it's putting Marie through.
Tony Page
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Jake,
First let me say I don't feel ignored I know you're going through a living h...., stress can be a foe just like the cancer is.
If you need a sounding board we are all here to support you and Marie.
We all have opinions including me on what to do. But you have to do what's best for you and Marie. I will say I'm a little confused, but the only thing I can offer is my prayers, my thoughts, and my love for you guys.
I have to add one more thought I think you're pursuing a good path in getting doctor's advice.
Tony
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Faye Fox
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If you haven't already, please read the Medicare rules concerning hospice. Before you see a doctor or do anything medical, other than an emergency unrelated to cancer, please call your hospice people. They have to make any or all appointments for the doctor or hospitalization. They also are responsible to get you drugs needed.
It is important to discuss everything medical with them, so you don't get hung with a big bill for services that Medicare once paid for, but now doesn't because you are in hospice care. Your hospice team is now in charge, so run everything by them. They will make any appointments for you, if they meet the guidelines of hospice.
www.medicare.gov
It is important to discuss everything medical with them, so you don't get hung with a big bill for services that Medicare once paid for, but now doesn't because you are in hospice care. Your hospice team is now in charge, so run everything by them. They will make any appointments for you, if they meet the guidelines of hospice.
Hospice care
Have terminal illness or know someone who does? Get hospice care coverage. Choose between in home, inpatient facility care. Learn more at Medicare.
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Marie Mallory
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Faye this is so true, and thanks for reminding what I read and the basically they said.If you haven't already, please read the Medicare rules concerning hospice. Before you see a doctor or do anything medical, other than an emergency unrelated to cancer, please call your hospice people. They have to make any or all appointments for the doctor or hospitalization. They also are responsible to get you drugs needed.
It is important to discuss everything medical with them, so you don't get hung with a big bill for services that Medicare once paid for, but now doesn't because you are in hospice care. Your hospice team is now in charge, so run everything by them. They will make any appointments for you, if they meet the guidelines of hospice.
Hospice care
Have terminal illness or know someone who does? Get hospice care coverage. Choose between in home, inpatient facility care. Learn more at Medicare.
The very last thing I want is to leave Jake with high dept because of my ignorance.
Tony Page
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Marie, Jake
In my last post I wrote I was a little confused, that's generally natural for me.
My understanding is you refuse a cat scan because you're worried about the pain. I'm sure you're not the first person to have this issue. They must have a way of reducing or eliminating the pain so you could get the needed CAT scan.
The cancer you mentioned is slow-growing type called chordoma. If it metastasized there still may be treatment to slow it's growth, and reduced the pain to manageable.
Listen to what the doctors recommends.
Tony
In my last post I wrote I was a little confused, that's generally natural for me.
My understanding is you refuse a cat scan because you're worried about the pain. I'm sure you're not the first person to have this issue. They must have a way of reducing or eliminating the pain so you could get the needed CAT scan.
The cancer you mentioned is slow-growing type called chordoma. If it metastasized there still may be treatment to slow it's growth, and reduced the pain to manageable.
Listen to what the doctors recommends.
Tony