Family Rituals

Ken Anderson

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I don't have anything to share at the moment, but I will later. Still, I wanted to introduce a topic that might spark some discussion here, given that things tend to slow down in a forum with fewer than a hundred members, many of them inactive. Whether you're thinking back to the family you lived with as a child or the family that you created as an adult, what frequent activities or rituals did you have that were important to the family or to you as an individual?

Often characterized as Sunday drives, we had something similar, only on Saturdays rather than Sundays, given that, between the morning and evening services, and family visits or visitors that tended to fall on Sundays, there wasn't much time for Sunday drives. But on Saturdays, not every Saturday, but often, whoever wanted to come along would go for a drive, either to parts of Michigan's Upper Peninsula that were remote from us or to places in Northern Wisconsin. Sometimes, my parents would have a destination in mind, but the ride itself was the activity.
 
The Sunday afternoon drive always ended at an A&W Root Beer stand, where my dad got a large mug, mom and I got medium mugs, the rest of the kids got kiddie sizes. There was one package of pretzels for the front seat occupants and one for the backseat.

To this day, drinking an A&W Root Beer takes me back to those Sunday drives.
 
When our blended family was settling in and getting used to living together after we got married, it was kind of a circus at the dinner table with 5 little kids. One evening I decided to put candles on the table, and assigned one kid to light them. The children were small, and they were amazed that they were allowed to handle matches, haha.

Having candles on the table and an assigned "match lighter" each day turned out to be a ritual of sorts. After dinner they used the candle snuffer to put the candles out. Somehow they never got tired of that, even after they were bigger kids.
 
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