Those of us who were raised on farms were familiar with death very early on. (Reference the Memory thread and the discussion of hog-slaughtering time). As a kid I saw animals slaughtered, dogs run over by cars, my grandma wringing chicken necks, my father shooting a rabid dog, and plenty of other stuff. Hunting was the least of it.
My father taught us how to handle guns and to respect wildlife. If we shot a living thing, we were expected to eat it. My brother learned this lesson when he shot a robin.
Ditto all of that.

I had a pistol in my hands when I was 14. I learned to shoot at the local dump on Sunday’s. Rats make for an excellent moving target, and I got pretty good hitting them in the head. As a young adult, I also had a Ben Pearson. I could pull 40# and was pretty accurate on a target. I was never a hunter, however. I preferred to sit on a big log with a Super 8 and film whatever wild life went past.
We had a smokehouse. That’s where a cow went when it stopped giving milk. Pigs were also often hung in there and you can’t beat that lard for pie crusts. Dad marveled his mom could wring a chicken”s neck in a blink, while he had to axe it .
I was driving the farm tractor down the hay field in creeper when I was five, while dad picked up the squares and stacked them on the wagon. Mom was not a happy person, but we couldn’t afford hired help. He would not let me run the equipment to make the hay, even though I always asked.
Dad had a wrench in my hand before mom could get a frying pan it — worked for me but I still had to mop floors. Being taught to turn wrenches saved me a boatload of money thru the years.
And here I am - 79 and still in one piece. I know many feel differently, but I wouldn’t change any of my growing up years.. As a young adult, my life with horses was what got me in trouble. Mostly because I went after the rankest of horses to reschool them and find them good homes with trail riders, but I wouldn’t change that either. I had my sweet /gentle Keepers, but I never could resist rehabbing one that had been ruined by some idiot human.
Both sides of my family were dairy farmers going back at least, into 1800’s. Knowing how to live minimally, while being safe and using common sense was all part of life.
I was one lucky kid to have been raised like I was; I never once experienced some of atrocities others on here speak about. Poor as we were, I loved my life and it’s why I chose to buy 25 acres of bare land and build my own farmette for retirement. My city slicker husband was fine with that. It is becoming more difficult to care for it, but my hope is to keep managing until my end time and my brother will scatter my ashes in my designated area….

