I've heard that horses can be mean and difficult to work with. Is that all because of the owner, or are they often "just born that way"?
We farmed with horses until the work mare died when I was four. I started riding bareback behind an older cousin when I was ten. My step grandfather raised Welsh/Morgans that another cousin & I broke under his strict but very fair tutelage.
I have owned my own horses non-stop since I was 12, paying for their hay & grain off grandadās farm by working on the farm, until I was old enough to earn a paycheck. They have saved my sanity more times than I can count ā especially when I lost my son & only child in a car accident.
All that to say I have only seen two black hearted horses, to where nobody was home in their eyes, in my life. A colt born on grandfatherās farm that was caught in a the sac a little too long, and my good friendās colt that was born an inoperable cryptorchid.
I have laid seven horses to rest in my lifetime; five of them laid to rest on this farm with one more to go whenever he tells me he is ready.. Six of them 27 to almost 31 years. The coming four year old suffered an irreparable broken leg in a freak pasture accident.
They all had different personalities and quirks. Some more difficult to work with than others and that is where the trouble starts with humans. Those who force a horse that isnāt ready for a new task because ātime is moneyā, or those who have zero common sense and canāt raise their children up in a fair manner.
I was a die hard trail rider, riding where there wasnāt much in the way of a trail, swimming across the narrow spot in a river. My last horse is a 30-ish Dutch Warmblood who is a retired show jumper. He was headed to Central Mexico to have his throat slit for dog food. Something he did not deserve as he is as sweet and loving as he is big - 17H big

The Arabian who is here on loan, is an onery little thing. He is 15. His owner got him out of an abusive situation when he was two. He was still a stallion and in such bad shape, the vet wouldnāt geld him until he was healthy- almost a year of physical recovery. He still has mental issues because the owner learned he was being teased where she had him boarded, and thatās how he came to my place. He has come a long way, but my physical frailties keep me from working with him the way I would like to. He has a good heart. I can see it in his daily behavior, and I can see it in his eyes, but Arabians by nature do not forget the sins committed against them and thatās why a lot of people donāt like them because they just donāt understand how they think. I like it to someone who should never own a Rottweiler or a pitbull, but would do fine with a Labrador or golden retriever

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@John Brunner this is waaaay more than you asked for, lol. Yes horses can be born mean but it is very rare. Yes people make them that way for various reasons then pass the āmeanā horse off to someone with no experience who doesnāt know how to fix it. I walk with a cane because I used to bring home these kinds of horses, reschooled them, then found good homes for them. Given the chance I would do that all over again, but I might be a little bit smarter about it now that I know the trouble I have walking

