Worried I'll Have Enough Money In Retirement

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  1. Chrissy Cross

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    Very many turn down help and don't even bother collecting money they should be getting. I read they can even have it sent to a friend's address or some other accommodation.
     
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  2. Ina I. Wonder

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    I was raised in and out of foster home, and that can be a form of homelessness as well. Many times you never knew where you would be sleeping from night to night, and you might not even know the people's name that you were with. This was the way I grew up until I was married at the age of 13.

    So to say I became a bit obsessed with my future security is an understatement. The first time I heard that a person could set up a retirement fund, I was in. Then I heard about those poor people that got swindled out of their retirement funds, and that frightened me to the point that I started researching the different ways to build retirement funds.

    Now if you have plenty of money, it's not a big deal to just set aside monies and just let it grow over fourty or so years, or even speculate in the stock market. But, most of us aren't in that league. I play cards, and dominos very well, but I've never been a gambler.

    Before I became an accountant, the idea of 401K's was over my head, but I did understand how payroll taxes worked. So I convinced my husband to always file single and 0 dependents until the end of the year when he was able to filed married and seven or more dependents. He liked the large pay outs. But I could never convince him to pay in more than what was required.

    I on the other hand, filed single and 0 dependents, but I doubled the required dollar amount, and that has worked out well for me. I get almost twice the amount my husband received from SS, and I have a pension from the Houston Municipality. I also bought stock in the gas and electric utility company's. (I learned that from playing Monopoly.) I pretty much stuck with what I thought was safe.

    Now all those that said I was depriving myself and my family of much needed funds are wondering why I get so much in SS each month.

    Now I'm nowhere near rich, but I don't need to worry either, unless the ever present possibility of a calamity comes my way. :oops:
     
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    Thanks, Frank! BTW, one liked your reply, not necessarily the word used in it. Anyway, thanks for the apology.
     
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    Even between the 2 of us , we will not have enough to retire on for long. Got started late on life so not much income here for future. But ....always said I would grow to be a bag lady
     
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    @Gloria Mitchell
    You may be "in the same boat" my Mother was. She never worked after my folks married, which was way before S/S was passed, thus received only 1/2 of my Dad's benefit after he died. They had a small nest egg put away which she pilfered as needed, not to often.
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    Ina, you went through a lot. But unlike you I didn't think of the future and retirement when I was younger.

    I've stayed out of debt but made some choices I shouldn't have. I've managed to save money just renting. That house I had took a lot of my money. That's something I worry about if I buy a mobile.

    Side note: I heard a radio advertisement for over age 55 condos in the San Francisco Bay Area starting in the 900,000's. No joke. The pricing in these kinds of areas has gone too far in my opinion. Who has this freaking money? People invested in pharmaceutical companies?! Then I watch YouTube videos of people living in little trailers etc. Wouldn't work with the cats, they need indoor room.

    There is a mobile home park I looked at that has some travel trailers in the park. I asked the managers if the were temporary or permanent and she stated permanent. Seriously I'd never look down on someone living like that. At least it's their own place, they can have pets, a little yard and feel secure. Maybe it beats an apartment for some people. And it's what they can afford.
     
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  8. Ina I. Wonder

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    @Kitty Carmel , I'm not sure where your located, but for 60 to 80 thousand you can get a good sized piece of land, and a new trailer here in Texas. Less than that if you can catch foreclosure. A friend of mine got a 1/2 acre with a five year old two bedroom trailer for $20,000 from an IRS foreclosure.

    I think today's trailer make nice home. Several of my friends live quite comfortably in them.
     
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    I never worried about it because I planned for it by living within my means/ saving & later investing. I retired in 1990 and have had a fantastic retirement with much travel and fun activities, and now that I am 82 and single I am happy that I have more resources than I really need to live well and can gift to my great grand kids.
     
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    I believe there's a couple of members of this forum who live very comfortably in trailer homes.

    @Kitty Carmel , I do hope you can find something to suit you soon, it must be a huge worry for you..
     
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    Ina, I'm in Northern California. With my step dad here, it seems moving is not an option. If I did move, I'd like to move some place with more rain. Moving is expensive on its own and I don't seem to have the ability to do that at this time. Feeling kind of trapped.
     
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