Why Do Young Ladies Do This?

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  1. Cody Fousnaugh

    Cody Fousnaugh Supreme Member
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    Young ladies, meaning those in their 30's, but there are those that are younger that do it as well.

    On Facebook, the assistant manager of the apt. complex in Jacksonville, took a selfie of herself puckering up her lips (like a kiss). I happen to be on Facebook and her Facebook page came up as a Friend Request. I deleted her Friend Request, but really wondered why she would take a selfie like this and put it on her Facebook page.

    Have seen young ladies also posing in a very low-cut tops for a selfie on Facebook, but have seen this on my opening internet page as well.

    Seeking attention or what?
     
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    Attention seeking is the answer, its laughable because they actually look stupid :rolleyes:
     
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    To them it's cute. At least that's what that assistant manager told me why she did it.
     
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    Its tiresome because they're everywhere - be unique and stand out for the right reasons
    Don't do this …… (yawn) ….

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    It just happens to be a popular pose. Perhaps to look sexy, perhaps to just be playful.
    I wouldn't do it, but I'm not offended at it.
     
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    Its tiresome but I'm not offended by it
     
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    Uh...ya’ll mean like this young lady?
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    Excatly why most of my family have been deleted or ignored on FB. Your not a Kardashian - get over it.
    And if its not those dumb lip poses...its the Hip Hop hand signal stuff. Not impressive in the least. :)
     
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    Why do some young ladies get tattoos? Their young, fresh and perfect selves are being defaced with meaningless graffiti. Would they intentionally carve into the paint of their bright, new Ferrari?
     
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    Guess some of us think nothing of it, while others think it's ridiculous and state just that. It's just like other things the young generation does that some older folks think "no big deal", so they just keep on doing it. However, would they stop if members of their family told them how silly/stupid it looked...…...nope!
     
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    Here’s the thing Cody. Earlier on, we didn’t have the capability to take selfies and have it instantly published. My goodness, there was a time when if a person took a roll of film to be developed and it looked in the least bit uh, “controversial” then it wouldn’t get printed.
    One question I might ask is how many folks tried to take a selfie and other questionable pictures with a Polaroid? I mean, wasn’t a Polaroid picture kind of a proclamation of some sort of independence and freedom from the censor (and other prying eyes)?

    I would wager that if our generation had the tech that we have today, there would be no questions asked because the net would have been filled to the brim with our earlier (and sexier) selfies.
    As it was, the girls started to wear mini-skirts and went braless in our generation and I didn’t hear one teenage guy complain about it then and those teenage guys are the old fuddy duddies of today.
     
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    Have to admit, Bobby, you are right. Folks at our age don't give it a thought at how/what we would've done if we had the same technology back then when we were that age.

    Same thing goes for drugs. Our generation complains about all of the drug use today, but a lot of us don't look back at the "day and age" of Woodstock and the drug use during those years. From video I've seen of U.S. soldiers in Vietnam, marijuana use was done quite a bit there.
     
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    You have NO IDEA how thankful I am to have sown my oats WITHOUT a lasting memory of the event on someone's cell phone. :D
     
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    To be honest, I don't pay a lot of attention to what other people do. In fact, unless I have a reason to, I don't pay a lot of attention to other people at all. In a restaurant, I never know who our waitress was because I didn't pay any attention to her when she gave us the menus or took our order. Even people I know have told me that they had waved at me or tried to get my attention, at different times and I didn't notice. Sometimes, I'll notice people in Walmart because let's face it, it's hard not to notice some of the people who frequent Walmart. Unless I'm sitting somewhere, with nothing else to do, I don't pay much attention to people around me.
     
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    I mentioned this to my daughter to see if this was still the rage on Facebook.
    She said the common term for it was called 'Duck Face Selfie'.
    So:
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