There is some words that we use and they send out an idea but that is not what you said: confused? The word try is often used to tell a person you are going to do something but in fact it means the opposite. An example if I asked you to come over to my house and you did not want to but you also do not want to hurt my feeling you would probably say yes I will try and make it. One of my hobbies was hypnosis and I was a registered Hypnotherapist in the US .When people came over to be helped to quit smoking when we were finished if they told me that they were going to try real hard I knew they had wasted their and my time whey were not going to quit. I now listen for that word and know its hidden meaning. Example if you told someone to try and push your hand if your hand moves they did not try they did it if the hand does not move then they tried.