Thanks @Babs Hunt though I admit I'm very resentful. I've spent much of my life alone, never married because of the house I grew up in and have no want to be someone's caregiver. The tire thing is just poor judgement and his thinking that it will be stolen I'm sure. Which is ridiculous. @Don Alaska I don't know about the home care or if he will accept it. Will have to see. As far as being a burden, I'm not sure how he feels about it. My mother loved to be a burden and had an insatiable need for attention. She was what I know now to be a Borderline Personality Disorder. My stepfather was her enabler and put up with her all those years. But he chose to marry her. Not knowing what he was getting into of coarse.