That's the other problem with forum discussions. We often misunderstand what the other person is trying to say. Sometimes this is done because anger clouds our ability to read objectively, but there is also the problem that human communication is intended to be more than verbal, yet a forum discussion is limited to words, and they don't always communicate the message we're trying to send. I like to think that I'm fairly good with words, but I am often misunderstood. Sometimes, I think it's clear that what I am saying is a joke or intended as light-hearted teasing, but someone gets angry. At least one person left the forum loudly over a discussion in which I thought I had been agreeing with her. After some angry messages, I tried smoothing things out, but her anger clouded everything I had to say. At other times, the fault may be with me, in that I think I am being clear but I'm really not. Then there is the fact that I sometimes forget that women are incapable of rational thinking. That last part was added to illustrate what I said earlier about intending something as a joke or as light-hearted teasing, by the way.