I Tell Wife I Love Her Every Day

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  1. Shirley Martin

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    I do this once or twice a day plus show her that I still desire her. Married 46 years and still madly in love. Love at first sight dies exist. I saw my wife on a train and 3 weeks later we were engaged.
     
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    Welcome to the forum @VinnyFL ...I think you will have to change your name, nothing personal but this forum require you to have a first and last name..doesn't have to be your own, so I suspect you;ll get a mail from admin to that effect!

    However do not let that put you off... this is a small but friendly forum.. .so it's nice to have you on board!!
     
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    Beyond being an emotional statement that is made to show affection, my reasoning for telling my wife that I love her on many occasions during the day is simply a sort of short hand for “I’m thinking of you” in a positive manner.

    I tell her before I leave the house because I am extremely aware of the fact that things happen and it might be the last time I can tell her. The same goes before we go to sleep because I may not wake up.
    I would rather her last memory of me was that I professed my love for her rather than breaking the promise of “see ya later”.
    I may be simply looking at her and thinking some fond thought and I want to let her into that world as one of the things that drives me foreword.

    To me, there is no time or place that isn’t appropriate for a small three word affirmation which might help my lady to feel more secure and much needed. If I’m too repetitious, so be it, but the opposite or even a once in a while just seems to give so much more room for doubt or a distancing that so many couples suffer from.

    We may sit in the same room and say nothing to each other for hours but every now and then when I look at her, I tell her I love her because.......I simply do.
     
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    awww that's just lovely @Bobby Cole . You're both blessed to have found each other in this huge world of possibilities...
     
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    I tell my wife she's a twit at least a couple of times a day. That's code for "I love you."
     
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    Is that equivalent to dingbat?

     
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    Yeah, I would say a twit and a dingbat are roughly equivalent.
     
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    Yes, but Never to be confused with a twinkie who has some markings that twits possess but are still in a classification of their own. The sideways tilt of the head and a remarkable affinity to pom poms are dead giveaways for the dreaded twinkie.

    That said, even twinkies need someone to tell them they are loved if even for a few minutes or so. i.e. The quarterback, halfback, captain of the team ..............
     
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    Yes, always let your spouse know that you love them in actions and words. If you don't, you'll be wishing you had after they're gone. My husband has been gone 5 years and I wish I could tell him that again and I know I told him some and showed him! I still wish I could tell him today!
     
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    If I had but twenty-four hours to live
    The things that don't matter could wait.
    I'd play with the children, hear all their stories
    Tell you I love you before it's too late.
     
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