I'm so not understanding why his actions are being excused by saying he's an affectionate person. What he does is not affectionate .. it's creepy. And though it may not have ended up in "sex" it is still an assault. There is something seriously wrong with that man who thinks nothing of what he is doing and something even more wrong with those who excuse those actions. I just don't get it and find it very disturbing that it's so accepted.