I worked with a person who was clearly going through a sex change from man to woman. I had such a difficult time trying to say 'she.' The sound of 'her' voice was that of a man, hands that handed me papers looked like that of a man and the face that I looked into had the features of a man specifically 'the five o'clock shadow.' I suspected she knew that it was difficult for me but never said anything to correct me or to my knowledge to my supervisor about it. I wonder how Nicole is doing.