Usually, if you forget your password, you should be able to retrieve it through the forum's "forgot password" feature, and any problems with that are most likely related to the automated email going into a spam filter or someone forgetting which email address they used when registering with the forum. When there are troubles, the problem is usually passed on to me through a third party, and that can be uncomfortable because I don't want to inadvertently get caught up in something that results in someone else gaining access to your account, so I would rather hear from you directly. My email address is easy to remember if you can remember my name because it is firstname.lastname@example.org. Please use a subject line that includes "Seniors Only Club" so that I can easily differentiate it from 99% of email, which is spam. When I check my email, I usually toggle "select all" and then quickly browse through the subject lines and from fields to uncheck those that seem to be genuine, bulk deleting the remainder.