Unfortunately, or whatever, wife and I have specific types of people we do and don't want to be friends with. There are those that smoke and cuss and that is a definite "no, no" for us. There are those with kids and grandkids and that is a "no" as well. There are also those that don't want to be friends with gun owners, of which we are. We aren't nearly as "open-minded" about certain things that others are. I have a very humorous (and sometimes sarcastic) side to me that some people plainly don't like. IOW, we are very picky about who we are friends with and that's the way we both like it.