A Relationship In General

Discussion in 'Family & Relationships' started by Michael Santi, Jun 16, 2017.

  1. Patsy Faye

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    Ha ha...I fixed it. :)
     
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  3. Chrissy Cross

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    Wow @Michael Santi ....128 replies for a newbies post...very good. :)
     
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    Nope he's not on trial at all...and I'm pretty sure he knows he does not have to answer any questions he doesn't want to answer. But we can ask them anyway. :) @Michael Santi just threw everything out there for us...and I am just curious if he knows the answers to what it is he really wants. I believe he learning what he doesn't want by what he has been experiencing but he may keep experiencing this if he doesn't really know what he specifically wants and is willling to wait for this.
     
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    I'm guessing he wants a nice CATHOLIC girl. ;)

    Growing up in Pittsburgh I know there were a lot of Italians and Catholics in my neighborhood.

    @Michael Santi ...what year did you move to PA.? I was there from 1954-1970. Went to South Hills High School on Mt. Washington....and Pitt for a year.
     
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    You sure he wants "nice"?? Perhaps more on the WILD side.
     
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    Guess you never heard about the Girls that went to a Catholic High School. :) Since they were surrounded by girls all week...weekends they got WILD. Lol

    I went to a public one.
     
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    Thank you Patsy from the very bottom of my heart ... I didn't even bother posting another rebuttal ... maybe it was how I write but you seemed to understand it ... Folks, I want one partner to end my life with .... I am a one woman man looking for a one man woman, some fear marriage .... My faith tells me that if my mind says I'm staying with the one if she stays with me , God KNOWS I'm married .... HE is no hippocrite, for if to lust in your heart is the same as doing it physically to the woman, than surely wanting her forever (if legally available) makes it a marriage as does the congress ... I'm not a Catholic ... my family is ... I'm a born again Pentecostal Christian who believes in the full gospel. Crissy, I returned to Pa. from Ca. in 2008 after a Ca. divorce .... I could write a book about that one which involved my sister who believes she is a very special and priveledged prophet .... I had a cult experience and a marriage I simply was not allowed to be the spiritual head of ... Won't discuss that here but let me know if there is private messaging on this site ... I see no way to contact anyone directly or what is allowed to be posted on screen ... I have a message about being 'tagged' several times ... I'm unaware of what that means or what is expected of me to do about that ...
     
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    ABSOLUTELY AWESOME RESPONSE, @Michael Santi ! This should make it clear to anyone who reads this what is in your heart.
    Prayers for you to find that right lady to be in your heart and in your life.....
     
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    Deleted what I wrote. However, will say this..............there are religions where females and males are told "no" to certain things. But, if the body becomes more powerful than the mind, all bets are off.
     
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    Well then, I deleted my reply. :)
     
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    Thank you for that ... yes it does but all is easy to answer ... I'm just shocked that all of the opening posts from only 3 days ago seems to have been overlooked ....
     
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    It's probably what most of us want....I know I do but finding love isn't that easy.

    Even if you're compatible and enjoy doing things together...doesn't mean you love that person.

    I can't explain love but I know when I feel it.
     
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    I was able to read it. I deleted mine because I didn't think the story of the Mormon girl related to his Thread, but.........
     
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    FYI, some folks here don't read all the replies from the first page on. Too much reading I guess.
     
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    Well, maybe one day I'll start a thread about how alcohol uninhibits me, so I stay away from it. :)
     
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    At the top right corner of the page, next to your name is a little envelope icon that is for sending a private message to someone else on the forum, @Michael Santi .
    You can also click on that person's avatar, and it opens a little box that offers the option of sending a message. It is called "start a conversation".
     
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    That's all you had to say @Michael Santi, that's an honest, no beat around the bush answer, and now I can pray that God gives you the desire of your heart in this. :)

    Almost 13 years ago and after a lot of prayer God sent me the partner I will end my life with and he was definitely worth waiting for...warts and all. :) Those warts even love mine. :)
     
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  20. Michael Santi

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    Love blooms slowly ... the water that nurtures it is the newness of the relationship ... the soil that feeds it is the ever growing closeness , the sunshine above it is God and quiet happiness ... mike Lisanti
     
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    I'll send you a PM...maybe it will make it easier for you to see how it works. A PM is a conversation.
    Tagging is just a way to let someone know that you mentioned them in a post.

    You just put their name after @...like @Michael Santi ....it will even drop a menu down after a few letters and you can click on the name.
     
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    BUT, at our age, going to slow can ruin things. To keep a woman interested, the man has to be interesting.
    Or, should I just say, "go get 'em tiger!" LOL
     
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  23. Michael Santi

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    Cody you are an animal !!!! ; )
     
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    Yep, former rock drummer can do that. Years ago, when I was a square dancer, the name on my club nameplate was "Wild Bill" and some ladies were very curious about that name.
     
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    They weren't overlooked by a lot of us...I think we just weren't understanding your lingo! :)
     
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